Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Goin Back to My Roots


Those who know me well, know that I've always been proud to be Ethiopian. Not only do I have the general pride anyone would have for their heritage, but I'm always proud of the history that Ethiopia carries. On top of that I'm also proud of my family history.

I think it's very important to go back to your roots and learn the history of your family - your people. Find out about your heritage, your ancestry, your genealogy - your roots. People always say by knowing our history we can successfully move into the future. But when they say that, the "our" is usually referring to people as a whole. Plus, that's what I was told by teachers when I complained about history class. However, most people never really know their own family histories. There are many reasons for that, as some may be adopted, some may not have records of family, and some may not even care. But I think it's important.

I have always been told stories of my family and genealogy, but it is only when I got in my 20s, and especially recently, that I got really interested in it. The past few weeks, I have been watching a new series called "Who Do You Think You Are?" where celebrities trace back their genealogy. It is so interesting and the effect that finding out about their relatives has on the them is amazing.

Lucky for me, a lot of my family history is documented a good ways back and there is also a family tree going back about 200 years on my father's side. (It kinda helps that my dad's side of the family is related to royalty.) I am glad for that, but it is all written in Amharic so it makes it hard for me (or my cousins) to read anything. I am determined to learn as much as I can, though. A few days ago I went to visit my grandmother (my mom's mother) and help her out with some things, and the whole time while I was there she randomly decided told me about her life. She told me about her childhood, her struggles as a very progressive and independent woman in a society that didn't nurture that, how she left her kids back home and came to the US for school in the sixties and the discrimination she faced, how it was when the communist military took power in Ethiopia during the mid-1970s, etc. I had never really heard her story, so I was quite engrossed. It was a nearly two-hour conversation, but it wasn't enough. I can't wait for another chat! I've always known my grandmother was a strong, passionate,  intelligent, determined woman, but hearing about how she got where she is with all her struggles made me appreciate what I have and made me want to be a better person.

This is why I think it's not only important to know your heritage, but it's also really interesting! I know for some it may not be easy or accessible as it is for me, but I hope more people will find out more about themselves through their ancestry. I find it so fascinating, and I love learning about other peoples' heritage and ancestry, too!

Whenever I get the chance, I plan on asking my grandparents more about their lives, and their history. I am fortunate to have 3 of my grandparents alive, and they carry so much knowledge and many stories with them, that it would be a shame if I didn't get their firsthand accounts - and in the future pass it on to my children...if I have any. :)

As far as going back to my roots, I really wanna do that again...literally. I wanna go back and visit Ethiopia again. Unfortunately, I can't see that happening anytime soon.

Friday, March 19, 2010

Oh, Reagan...lol

"Politics is supposed to be the second oldest profession. I have come to realize that it bears a very close resemblance to the first."
- President Ronald Reagan

Monday, March 8, 2010

Live and Let Live

Never in my life have I been this informed and involved with political on-goings as I have been lately. And there is too much mishigas going on now...especially since President Obama took office, but that's a whole other issue. Anyway, adding to some of the nonsense is this new initiative that the Virginia Attorney General is taking on. He sent a letter to the leaders of public colleges and universities, telling them not to ban anti-gay discrimination. This could create problems for many colleges in Virginia because they do in fact include sexual orientation among characteristics on which they bar bias.

How sad. As a lifelong Virginian, it pains me to see my state retreat back into ignorance. To think that in the first two months of Republican rule in 8 years, they need to attack gays twice. First, nine days after becoming governor, Bob McDonnell takes away people's civil liberties by eliminating the benefits for homosexual employees. And now this absurd rule from the new Attorney General, Ken Cuccinelli. Don't we have more important things to focus on, instead of taking away peoples' freedoms which they so rightly deserve? We should be fixing what's wrong within our state and our people, instead of wronging what's right. It's amazing how this is happening in Virginia when within the last two weeks both DC and Maryland have recognized same-sex marriages in some way. And the country is also in the midst of trying to repeal Don't Ask, Don't Tell. I would like to believe that Virginians will not tolerate such discrimination in this day and age, and that this will go to the Supreme Court and US federal laws will shoot this down. This is a setback for all Virginians (and the US) and not just the LGBTQ community. Come on now. Virginia is for Lovers...not for haters. 

Here is an article about it. 

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Cannot Wait for LIFE!

I absolutely loved watching Planet Earth and I love anything about nature...so I cannot wait until March 21st (also my mom's birthday!), which is when Discovery Channel's new 11-part series called LIFE starts airing. There's no better show on earth than life itself! I know...I'm corny, but I love it! :)



Saturday, February 27, 2010

Cheap Hobby

I am not one to talk too much about this, but I don't really mind it anymore. Since the end of August, I have been on this quest to be in the best shape of my life - health wise and body wise. At this point, I am past where I ever thought I'd be and I am healthier than I ever have been. And I also haven't been this small since middle school, I'd say. As of now, I have lost about 30 pounds and I'm not gonna lie - I wouldn't be sad if I lost a bit more. lol However, right now furthering my weight loss is not my goal. Getting in shape and continually bettering myself is my ultimate goal.

In the past, and especially these past few months, I discovered that running is something that really love to do. Who knew that something I absolutely hated to do in P.E. would later on come to be something that I'd love? Plus, come on...I'm Ethiopian, and some of the best long distance runners in the world are Ethiopians. It's in my blood! lol jk. Anyway, upon this discovery, I kept on telling myself that I'd run some races but would never actually commit and take on the challenge. This time I'm taking it on, and I'm so excited!

Today, I did lots of searching and found a 5K race here in Nashville on April 10th, which I signed up to do. A 5K is about 3.1 miles and is something that is not hard to do. I have run that distance many times, but because the race is about 6 weeks away, I will be able to work on it and improve my time. I also have REALLY wanted to do a half-marathon and after much searching, I found one (that a friend may be joining me on!) that is on September 5th in Virginia Beach, Virginia. That gives me plenty of time to train and do pretty decent on it. I haven't signed up for it yet, but plan to do so soon, hopefully. In between those two races, I'm planning on running other 5Ks and also hope to find a 10K race in Nashville or nearby so I can get more racing experience.

I'm excited to start this new chapter of my life, where I try new things, go out of my comfort zone and challenge myself. Although I have always liked to do these things, I never challenged myself 100%. This time I will, but along the way I plan on trying other new little things, too. One other thing is, I would absolutely LOVE to take kickboxing classes. As soon as I get a job and get some pretty steady income, I will sign up. No doubt about it. I just wanna do something different and challenging mentally and physically...and also be able to kick some ass too!

I always wanted to have a countdown clock for something so I thought I'd be corny and add one for the 5K on my blog. It's the little things that make me happy. :)

Friday, February 26, 2010

14,000 Years of Companionship

People who know me, know that I love animals. I had several pets growing up and like most little kids, I wanted to be a veterinarian. Somewhere along the years, that plan changed, but I still loved animals. I still absolutely love animals...of all kinds. I also have lots of respect for all animals, creatures...and life. With that said, the other day, I was thinking about our dogs at home and how much I love them. Then today I saw an article talking about 'dog people' and 'cat people.'

First I was thinking about how smart animals are. I believe my dogs are smart. I mean, how do they know their names? We have two dogs, Bora and Kumla...how did they learn which name is theirs? How come they can learn human words, but we can't learn their 'language'? And how can they read human emotions? It's amazing. What's up with the inter-species connection between humans and dogs? Well, I do know that dogs have had a close relationship with humans for over 14,000 years. Of course the dogs of thousands of years ago are not the same dogs we have in this current day and age, but after many years of domestication they have come to be known as "Man's best friend."

When I am with my dogs, and when I play with them, or when I talk to them, or when I give them a hug or just look in their eyes - I many times forget that they are DOGS. No, I am not delusional or some crazy dog lady. lol I believe this is because dogs exhibit many emotions that are similar to humans. Although it is hard to determine, as animals cannot communicate to us in words, I believe dogs have the ability to feel deep affection towards people. Their body language shows whether they are happy, sad, angry, depressed, or excited. They seldom complain, never threaten to leave us, don't judge us, and always forgive our failings. Their constancy can be a comforting presence as we go about our daily ever-changing lives. Dogs have successfully been used for therapy, to lower blood pressure, and to relieve stress. They are also trained to be loyal guide/companion dogs to disabled persons...and have also been known to rescue many people from dangerous situations. When I think about what lengths dogs will go to for their human companions it amazes me. It also amazes me that there are so many people who abuse their pets. I just don't understand it. All dogs (and other pets) want is love, food and attention - and probably in that order.

All this talk doesn't mean I'm necessarily a 'dog person', but if I was told to choose between a dog and a cat to have as a pet, and I had the means to care for either, then I would pick a dog. But I'd be happy with either...or many other animals. (In the past, I have wanted a rabbit, a ferret, a lizard, a rat, a snake, a turtle and a gerbil, among other things. lol) According to the article I read on CNN.com today, the personality description of a 'dog person' does not really describe me. I'd say I'm in between a dog and cat person. The 'dog people' in this study were apparently more social and outgoing, and scored higher on agreeableness and conscientiousness, while 'cat people' tend to be more neurotic but 'open' - meaning creative, philosophical and nontraditional. I'd say I'm a little bit of both - not so much neurotic, though. ....or am i? lol jk

Either way, I just wish more people would have a better understanding, appreciation and compassion for all living creatures. We are all taught (hopefully) to have compassion for other humans, but why not extend that to ALL living beings. I mean we all inhabit this earth, playing an important role in each other's existence - why not treat animals, who provide so much for us, with compassion and respect?

I don't care what anyone says...my babies are cuties and I love em! :)

 



Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Warm Weather + Nashville = Me Excited

I've always had no real connection to Nashville except for the fact that I was born here, my mom's family lives here, and now my parents (and I) do. I only have on friend here and I have never really given this city a chance. Luckily, this past weekend gave me a small taste of what Nashville has to offer. One of my good friends came up from Atlanta last weekend and along with my high school friend who lives here now, we spent a good time together. The weather was beautiful and we went to the Parthenon (a replica), danced the night away, went on walking bridge over the Cumberland River late at night and looked that beauty of downtown from above, and went to the Frist Center for the Visual Arts. This small amount of fun caused me to look up more things that this city has to offer me as far as fun and intellectually stimulating activites. I can't wait for the warm weather so I can explore the beauty of the Tennessee outdoors and to experience what Nashville is very well known for - the live music scene. Here are the top places I want to visit. I can't wait!

- The Tennessee State Museum: Apparently it's huge and encompasses a lot of natural history.
- Cheekwood Botanical Garden and Art Museum: Formerly the residence of Nashville's Cheek family, is now a museum and has a 55-acre botanical garden.
- Chihuly Exhibit: Dale Chihuly is a famous American glass sculptor and has exhibits around the country. It's gonna be here in Nashville for the summer.
- The Hermitage: President Andrew Jackson's home, and the fourth visited presidential home. Visited Washington's at Mount Vernon...why not Jackson's? :)
- BB Kings Blues Club: I've seen Mr. King perform live, I love blues and I love live music. Perfect.
- Las Paletas Gourmet Popsicles: Interesting food find and very popular spot. All kinds of flavors from rose, to avocado, and mango chili. Mmm..yum.

Anyone wanna join? Come on down to good ol' Music City, USA! :)